Frequently asked questions
What is the dress code?
Black tie optional. We would love for our guests to get dressed up. Women are welcome to wear gowns or cocktail dresses and men are welcome to wear a tux or suit.
Am I allowed to take photos during the mass?
We would like our guests to be fully present with us so we are opting for an unplugged ceremony. We ask guests to kindly turn off cellphones and refrain from taking photos during the mass to allow the photographers to do what they do best- take photos!
Am I allowed to bring a plus one?
Due to space restrictions we are limiting plus ones to guests that are engaged or married. Please refer to your wedding invitation for additional guidance.
Am I allowed to bring my children?
We love your children but due to space restrictions, we are unable to host them at our wedding. Please arrange for childcare the wedding day / night and reach out to us for recommendations.
Will there be transportation day of?
You will be responsible for your own transportation from Our Lady of Mercy Church to the Westin (~45 minutes). There will be about a four hour gap between the church and the reception. Feel free to grab a bite to eat, drive to the Westin Governor Morris hotel, check in and get ready! Shuttles will run from the Westin to the Park Savoy starting at 5:30PM. Return shuttles from the Park Savoy to the Westin will run starting at 10PM. Unfortunately we are not able to provide shuttle service back and forth to the Marriott in Park Ridge.
What time should I arrive at the church for the ceremony?
The mass will begin at 1PM so please arrive between 12:30PM and 12:45PM to ensure you are seated before we walk down the aisle.
What time will the reception end? Is there an after party?
The reception will end at 11PM. Guests will transition to the after party at the close of the reception and are welcome to stay until 1AM.